Interesting problem here. So I self host jellyfin, happy to share my (owned) movies with my family. Well, my mother has asked me to digitize her collection too and have me host it. Originally, fine, you give your movies to me, I host them, same thing.

However, what I didn’t bet on was the amount of garbage, terrible movies she would give me. There’s a few that are fine, but the vast majority are, well I’ll just put it bluntly, christian propaganda. I don’t think any of them are as terrible as some of the worst case, but think “My life was horrible until I found god now look and see how fulfilled I am” type propaganda - and they make for horrible plots. Left Behind with Kirk Cameron is a good example. Even removing the blatent boring christian plots - it’s just a horribly made movie. Cheap, not thought out well, and honestly I read the book decades ago, it’s a horrible adaptation too.

Not that I keep only top tier movies in my libraries, but these are, well they just bring a pit to my stomach.

What would you do in my situation? (And I’m going to go ahead and say the pure atheist comments aren’t needed, yes of course I could burn them, or dance around them, but I’m not looking to just burn the bridge between my mother and myself over a lifetime of her indoctrination and bad taste in movies). I’m more looking for generic, how do you handle your users asking you to put content you don’t find appealing on your server?

  • @empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    14311 months ago

    If its just for her, I don’t really care what content I host for family unless it straight up nazi/gay hate shit. New age “found christian” movies are massive yuck, but innocuous otherwise. She’s gonna consume them regardless of whether you host them or not.

    Move it to its own library, make sure to rip in low quality (480p low bitrate) so you’re not spending too much disk space in her, and let it be. It’s not worth driving a rift in the family over.

    • ScrubblesOP
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      5111 months ago

      Good level headed reply, I like this. Others have suggested that as well, I’ll move the crud over to her own library, then it doesn’t pollute my main library and I can hide it from the others.

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    1811 months ago

    It was a mistake to agree to that. Also I don’t see how the types of movies change a thing

  • @HumanPerson@sh.itjust.works
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    8511 months ago

    I don’t have this problem exactly, but what I would recommend is putting it in a specific separate library. You could even set it up so only your mother’s account can access it, and you never have to see it, or you could have it visible but never go to it.

    • ScrubblesOP
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      1511 months ago

      This is a good idea, and an approach I’m going to think about and probably take. Then it’s away from everything else, and not polluting my actual good movies.

    • @VinS@sh.itjust.works
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      11 months ago

      Would probably do this, but also rip it in very poor quality to be sure it does not take too much space :D

      • umami_wasabi
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        11 months ago

        Malicious compliances in action. Not that you can’t do, but this can tense up the relationship.

  • @realbadat@programming.dev
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    1511 months ago

    I say “no”, but for your case and for your mom, I’d agree with what others have said, a standalone library.

    BUT! Only the Christian movies. Put them in a library called “The Christerion Collection”.

  • @merthyr1831@lemmy.world
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    810 months ago

    I’d keep the physical library around and just digitize as and when she asks for specific stuff. You’ll probably never back up half the library. That or stick it on a HDD out of the way and transfer the few she wants, then tuck the drive in a draw forever in case she wants something else.

    Jellyfin must have a feature like Plex where certain user accounts can have certain libraries attached? You could use that to avoid having to look at those crappy movies in your library.

    I don’t really have much of an issue with family recommendations but I do tell them that the space isn’t unlimited so if they don’t watch something they asked for I’m likely to remove it for something we WILL watch. In your case, you could at least have leverage to get her to narrow down what needs hosting and what doesnt.

  • @lud@lemm.ee
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    1710 months ago

    If there are just a few movies just make a separate library or something. If there are a fuck ton of shit movies that takes up lots of time to rip or use lots of storage, just say no.

    • @ShepherdPie@midwest.social
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      110 months ago

      Separate library was my thought as well. I’m also hesitant to put any requested movies on my server that are along the same vein, but if it’s not too many, it really doesn’t matter at the end or the day. It’s just some crappy movies in a sea of other movies.

  • @MXX53@programming.dev
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    911 months ago

    I disagree with my mah and old man a lot. But, when I was having hard times as a kid, giving them headaches and heartaches, and when I struggled as an adult they were there to tell me they loved me, hug me, feed me regardless of what I believed. They have always loved me unconditionally.

    If it ain’t illegal. I’ll host it for them, no questions asked. If I ever needed anything, those are two people I know will be there every time, without fail. It’s the least I can do to try and pay them back, even if I know I never could.

  • @hperrin@lemmy.world
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    You could make a new movie library named “Christian Propaganda”, put them all in there, and only give your mom access. She’ll probably be mad, but it’ll be funny and you’re technically abiding by her request. Once you have your laugh, you can change the name to “Christian Movies”.

    • antsu
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      1611 months ago

      This here OP! ☝️

      Jellyfin lets you do this easily.

    • @bmcgonag@lemmy.world
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      2411 months ago

      I have to agree with this. It’s your mom. If she isn’t hurting you, or asking you to watch them, and you have the space and bandwidth, just do it.

    • ScrubblesOP
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      1011 months ago

      I don’t like hosting things I disagree with for others to view and consume

  • @odelik@lemmy.today
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    1911 months ago

    Do one of the following:

    1. Tell your mother you’re not comfortable hosting that type of content as a non-believer.
    2. Lie and hand back the propaganda movies and say you couldn’t rip them to some unknown rip protecting they use and there’s not enough resources online to figure it out.
    3. Host the content and let your mother liver her life and don’t say anything.

    I’d personally use option 1, but you do you.

    • ddh
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      111 months ago
      1. You cant host them because your heathen server catches fire every time you rip one of the movies
  • Avid Amoeba
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    1911 months ago

    I don’t know if you can do this with Jellyfin but this is what I could do with Plex:

    • create an account for her
    • create a new dir for her movies
    • create a new movie library called “Mom’s special” which watches this dir
    • share the new library with her account
    • share the rest of the libraries with her account
    • drop the garbage in the special dir

    In the end no one else sees Mom’s special, while your mom sees everything and Mom’s special.

      • Avid Amoeba
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        711 months ago

        Perfect. That checks one more requirement on my migration checklist. 🥹

        • rudyharrelson
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          511 months ago

          I migrated from Plex to Jellyfin maybe a year and a half ago and haven’t looked back. Great user experience and works so well out of the box IMO. Good Android app, too. Works with Chromecast, too (though I’ve been trying to ditch Chromecast in favor of just a laptop connected to the TV via HDMI).

          I started digitizing old home movies that were on VHS and created a “Home Movies” library for my family; none of us had watched them in ages since none of us have a VCR anymore, lol. Great mother’s/father’s day gift for one’s parent if you’ve got the time and equipment. It’s nice having the whole family able to easily stream our home movies.